I have identified one of my biggest leaks
When I flop a monster, but not the nuts, I check or bet small WAY too often. This is a rookie mistake.
In my mind, I want action and I don’t want to “scare off” my opponents. All too often, I don’t-scare them right into a hand that beats me on the turn or river! And then I have no idea what they have, as my check or small bet on the flop didn’t narrow their range, and I’m left guessing if they are bluffing, trying to rep the hand I have, or simply outdrew me. It’s very hard to fold top trips or 2pair, so more often than not I just lose my whole stack to a speculative hand that never should have made it to the turn.
Don’t do this!
Mostly, I should bet my hand. If I have KT and it flops KKJ, the biggest wins will come from dominating hands like K9 or a non-believing J, not from somehow convincing Q9 or AT to keep putting money in because I give them a good price. The draws should have to “pay for it,” I should extract more value from those hands in the first place, and I should accept that often, I’ll simply take down a smaller pot on the flop.
Don’t reverse implied odds yourself, guru! UGH.
EDIT: this is EXTRA bad if like me, you are an aggressive player who often makes big bets without “having it.” The whole point is now we can also bet big when we do have it, and they might still call knowing our image. Ai yaaaaa!
DOUBLE EDIT: also, if someone doesn’t 3bet preflop, checks behind on KKJ, and suddenly goes ALL IN when checked to on KKJT, THEY HAVE A STRAIGHT OR BETTER at a ridiculously high frequency. Ya gotta be able to let it go unless you have notes that they’re a maniac.