I thought about it and it seems a little harsh!
Users should have the first nick ever. But if you ask nice and or give reason why you want change it, please send email to:
Im sure they help, but aware staff members have lots of other things to do.
My question is if I get to change my user name will players on my friends list be able to find me? There are a couple people that I would not like to know who I am.’
Yes, all will be same.
In case you weren’t aware you can now change your username yourself (just once!) here:
https://www.replaypoker.com/settings/username